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Is this overdoing asking someone to homecoming?

I’m planning on asking a girl to homecoming (I’ve know her for a long time, but just as friends), however, I’ve learned that two other people would like to ask her (not a soul knows who I want to ask). So, I want to ask her as early as possible (there’s two days I can do my plan, 36 and 33 days before the dance).

Since I have competition, I’d like to make asking her memorable (I’m a junior, so I can’t go to prom, so this is the only dance where I ask), so I’ve come up with a plan:

I’m part of drumline, so I plan to involve them. I’ll have a friend bring her to the band room. When she walks in they’ll start playing. Then, a friend and I will walk out of the instrument room with a banner that says “Homecoming?”. I’ll give her flowers, then motion to the sign, and ask “so, homecoming with me, what do you say?”.

The question is, am I overdoing it? It seems like quite the production, and while this is my only time this year I’ll be asking someone to a dance and I’d like to go all-out, I’d also like to be reasonable and respectful. Thoughts?

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Answer #1

overdoing a bit but still sweet

Answer #2

i think thats cute n i dont think thats overdoing it cause when i went to school there was a guy that did that ha like it was powderpuff were the guys are cheerleaders lol n once they were done cheering this guy had a huge banner asking her to prom n it was infront of the whole school like it was so cute

Answer #3

It depends on the type of girl she is. If she’s the shy type then it might be a bit too much for her but if she’s more of the outgoing type.. it might be just her cup of tea.

Either way, when you truly care about someone, which you seem to, thoughtfulness goes a long way. And your plan sounds cool so I say go for it!!

Don’t forget about us once this goes down. We are all eager to hear how it went. Good luck!

Answer #4

I think that’s really cool, but do you think she’ll say yes even if you were to just ask her to homecoming without all of that? Because you don’t want her to feel obligated to go to homecoming because you put together a big thing for her, you know?

Answer #5

Awe yes!! Do it! How could she say no to that!

Answer #6

Awe yes!! Do it! How could she say no to that!

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