What are your opinions on parents who kiss their children on the lips when they're about 7 or so?

Answer #1

I think it’s totally normal, even after 7 yrs old.

Answer #2

Feels like very awkward. I don’t think that’s good (only for my opinion)

Answer #3

Even if it’s like the father and the daughter? When the mother doesn’t even do it.

Answer #4

well it is their child, if the child is uncomfortable with it they will tell their parents.

Answer #5

I say they shudnt b kissin on the lips like after age 3 or 4, it wud b kinda uncomfortable

Answer #6

I did it until I was 13.

Answer #7

I don’t think there is anything wrong, a kiss is a sign of affection it doesn’t have to be considered sexual and inappropriate. I’m Romanian so I greet my relatives with kisses.

Answer #8

yea, why doesn’t the mother do it?

Answer #9

I guess it depends on your background.

Answer #10

I think it’s completely normal, I think with the things going on in society which makes it seem inappropriate, with what we hear now a days that happens… but that shouldnt be happening.

Answer #11

My hubby comes from a very traditional French family. He is 36 and his mother still kisses him on the lips. It’s not like it’s some long, drawn out smooching session - it’s just a quick peck on the lips and I don’t see anything wrong with it.

Answer #12

I think it’s okay. I have a 14 year old friend who pecks her mum on the lips when saying goodbye. In my social circle, it’s hard to define what’s inappropriate and what’s not; some girls in the group greet each other by kisses on the lips whether they are bi or not. It’s just a part of sociolect for us.

Answer #13

It’s a cultural thing. Most of my family members still kiss each other on the lips as it is how they greet and they are well into their 50’s and 60’s. I think that if it makes the person uncomfortable then it should be stopped. I for one don’t like hugs and kisses as greetings. They just invade my personal bubble but if that is the way you show affection and greet I see nothing wrong with it.

Answer #14

I don’t see how that’s a bad thing. If the child thinks it’s weird then they can discontinue kissing their parents on the lips. I still kiss my mom on the mouth sometimes, I don’t see how that’s weird. I don’t kiss my dad on the lips though…..

Answer #15

Ew.

Answer #16

My personal opinion, not ok. It just really bothers me …

Answer #17

In my culture, one greets family members, friends, and occasionally even mutual friends that you are just meeting of the same culture. However, I personally do not believe children should be kissed on the lips, and I know that the majority of people feel uncomfortable with this.

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