What is your opinion on premarital sex?

lol umm not exactly in hallways but i heard of it in school

I’d test drive a car before i bought it

They ones who f!ck in school are idiots. Normal teenagers can contain themselves. Like you’ve got a hand for a reason, lol.

lol i dont use my “hands” i think thats nasty but i guess i can contain myself. no guy is worthy enough anyways :)

It’s not impossible to contain your urges. We just live in a society where instant gratification is what we seek. If it’s against what you believe in, then hold back. I’m 18 almost turning 19, been with my boyfriend almost 3 years, and still a virgin, only now, are we talking about possibly making that step. Did we both feel urges? uhm, hell yea we did. But you can contain yourself. Anyways at this age it’s all hormones, not many relationships are actually serious.

As a christian I will put it to you this way. God said not to do it. It can be controlled. Sex is an amazing thing. However, it can be good and bad. It can destroy a relationship or enhance it…. however you are too young to be thinking along those lines. Wait until you are a bit more mature and ready to make decisions and handle whatever the consequences are. However, 1 good thing of waiting until you are married is that you will have something to do your wedding night.

I don’t see a problem with it. What is marriage anyways? A piece of paper, a fancy ring, and a party. You can be married to someone, have sex, then it turns out you totally hate the person your married to and regret having sex with them in the first place. Or you could never be married and be completely in love with someone, have sex, and never regret your first time. These are just scenarios but, I don’t really see what’s wrong with permaridal sex. If you love the person. F*ck there brains out married or not.

^ Haha, LIES.

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I believe that sex is a really important part of a relationship. If you and your partner don’t click in the bedroom, your relationship (or marriage) will be less likely to last anyway. Try before you buy is my motto. But only when you’re ready, and that goes for every different person as well. Just because somebody has lost their virginity doesn’t mean that sex no longer means anything. Virgin or not, you choose who you have sex with, when and where etc.

I am against it. Personally, I think it brings about a special unity when a married couple has only been with each other. It also can show an aspect of determination that can be beneficial in knowing whether you want to marry this person or not.

the flip side to that would be that if a couple can have a great relationship without sex….. then horrible sex won’t break them apart. There is more to buying a car then just testing how the key works in the ignition.

I’m not against it, I do however believe in having sex in a committed relationship. I don’t see the point of meaningless sex and I don’t believe that teenagers should be having sex because if they do fall pregnant they end up decreasing their living potential so to say. That being said, if people want to have sex I would at least hope that they do it safely.

Oh, come on Harleey. No need for that.

Agreed. Lots of people actually don’t. That was rude.

Your immature answers are uncalled for. Give some real advice or lay off.

Marriage is more than a piece of paper if u are religious like her.. Its a bond and oath u take in front of God. Its bound by a priest therefore by God.

I agree with Bryson. Although i am a christian and not married i have two kids. We are only human. But try ur hardest to make it last till marriage. U wont go to hell if u do like i said we are only human and make mistakes. U can be forgivin. But dont use that as an excuse to do it.

Sex isn’t the most important aspect of a relationship but it is an important one. If a couple isn’t sexually compatible it is going to stress the relationship. If one person wants sex every day while the other is happy with a few times a year the former is going to feel frustrated while the other will feel pressured. If one is visual and likes sexy lingerie and the other prefers to turn the lights off this is also hard to get past. I think it is rather foolish to marry and plan to only have sex with one person for the rest of your life if you don’t know what sex with that person is like.

You make a very valid point. An argument against that is if you want to have sex with just that one person but turns out its horrible and the relationship ends….. well once you start its very hard to stop…. if possible for some people

You make a very valid point. An argument against that is if you want to have sex with just that one person but turns out its horrible and the relationship ends….. well once you start its very hard to stop…. if possible for some people

not only that but marriage is intended to protect you from all kinds of diseases. you are not to cheat on your spouse. its a sin to do so.