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Okay I have known this guy for about two years and when I met him he was 16 now hes 18 an out of school We started off hatting eachother then a few months go by and he wants to chill with me so I go and chill with him and we hook up but not have sex,,, Well now every time I hang out with him we do something more and the very last time I had hung out with him was aboout 3 days ago and we got pretty into whatever we were doing And im scared that mabe one day when we hang out he may take the advantage of me because I hate saying no And I want to wait for someone special but after we hung out this last time I just feel so out of it and just want to cry for doing all the stuff I had done I mean should I feel like this or no and when I told him that I didnt want to do anything next time and explained everything to him all he said was k. Should I just not even talk to him at all or what???

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Answer #1

OK so here is the thing. I was just like that we would be at his house and he would kiss me and we would go on and do other stuff.Then one night I went over to his house and he had the lights off and he was in his room he had everthing ready. I told him that I was not doing it. I HATED say no to him but we were fighting like you. I didnt want him to think that just becouse we were talking and chillin that it was ok. I know that you dont want to say know if it gets to that but it would help if he tells you fine what ever and he just stops look at you and like he is mad I would just get up and leave. That tells you that he was takeing it slow for him for a little bit but all he wanted was to have sex. I would after that not talk to him or just talk on the phone.

Answer #2

just see how he feels about it ask for a little bit more than k and ask if he has a problem with it and if he sais he does than he is not the guy for you because the guy should NEVER rush the girl and if he does than he dont deserve you so just ask him for more of an answer than k and see what he says

Answer #3

You need to stand up for yourself because you’re going to end up getting hurt at this rate :( I know this is a cliche, but it’s true. If a guy truly cares for you he wont mind waiting. If he’s not talking to you about it properly, and he’s not respecting your feelings, I would wonder if he’s right for you. Men will treat you how you let them. It sounds like you deserve better.

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