one positive and three neg iam confused

You are probably making a self-fulfilled prophecy. That means that because you want to be pregnant so badly, and you are expecting yourself to be pregnant that every tiny little sign that could mean you’re pregnant could be multiplied by your body. This is because your body is giving you what you want. You want to be pregnant, and your body might be making it look like you are. However, you obviously cannot get pregnant without actually having sex. So as much as your body tries, there is no way it can make it self pregnant. That’s why it just looks like you are. You need to find the time that you’re ovulating. The average for a female cycle is 28 days. Your period happens on day 1 and usually lasts about 7 days. About a week after your period is over should be the time you ovulate. This is a good time to have sex. Ovulation last about 2 days (in a 28 days cycle, on day 14 and 15). After the 28th day, your period starts again. Keep in mind, that day 1 does not mean the first day of the month. It means that first day of your period. And the length of your period may be longer or shorter than a week. Your full cycle (from the time you start your period to the next time you have your period) may be different. You have to find your own personal ovulation time because it is different for every girl. A good tip would be to find your temperature. The two days your ovulating, your body temperature will go up slightly on day one (from your normal temp.) and then down a few degrees on day two. Here is how you do this. Before you go to bed, put a thermometer on your bed stand. As soon as you wake up (meaning before you open your eyes, before you sit up, before you even move your whole body) take your temperature (in your mouth). Document this daily. If you do this correctly, you will notice a temperature change of about .8 degrees (decimal 8 degrees) difference from your normal temperature when you are ovulating. The reason why you can’t even open your eyes or move that much is because your temperature is greatly affected by even the slightest factor such as your eyes opening, sitting up, or stepping on the ground. I hope this helped! Good luck!