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Okay to masterbate without your partner present?

Do you think it’s okay to masterbate on your own time even tho you have a partner? My girl didin like the idea of me masterbating on my own time

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Answer #1

Practically all guys do it. Including many who are happily amrried or with long term girlfriends.

It has very little to do how much sex you get from them or if the sex is good or not.

Its just something that guys enjoy at times without having the additional worry of pleasing their partner.

You are perfectly healthy and normal when it comes to this but some gitls feel that guys do it because they are not happy with their partners.

Of course, some of the times this may be true but often it has nothing to do with it.

Kiasu

Answer #2

Surely, that’s normal? Solo sex is pretty different to sex with another present. It’s an entirely introverted act, sometimes not even lustful, but just to release tension, to comfort to get to sleep better.

Some people seem to think that once they’re in a relationship they own the person body and soul and without them there will be no pleasure. Others that masturbation is a chance to think about other people, possibly their best friend or dad ;)

Maybe she’s never allowed herself to pleasure herself. A lot of women were brought up to believe that sex is about pleasing the man and any pleasure she derives is just a bonus, a guilty secret?

If you can’t convince her that you’re not stealing anything meant for her just don’t let her catch you. You know you’re not cheating or stealing, so nothing to feel bad about.

Answer #3

yes thats quite normal. toni

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