What am I doing wrong?

Ok so im 18 and I never had a girlfriend, and no im not gay, but I dont know what im doing wrong. Im the nicest guy you will ever meet, and im really funny. I am kinda chunky. I do talk to girls but apparently they dont notice in that kind of way. Its pissing me off, I dont know what im doing wrong

Can some one help?

Answer #1

my besti is 16 and never dated or been kissed! don worrie. it wiill come. everything happens for a reson

Answer #2

okay your 18 and havent had a girl?? maybe your suppose to date dudes… if you cant get a girl. go fir the guys.

Answer #3

your bein to nice an your prob actin like a gal pal which is bad an start flirtin w the girls you like an let em no your interested

Answer #4

Talk but be mysterious. Girls normally think thats cute. Urnprobably bein too nice and they think you wanna “ just he frinds” dont get stuck in the friend catagory!!!

Answer #5

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Answer #6

Umm lose some weight? Work out what women are after in terms of your behaviour, looks and personality? I’m sure you’ll accuse me of being a mean and horrible person, but let’s get serious here. If things aren’t working for you, you need to change. It’s one of the principles of being a mature adult, things wont come to you, you have to work hard for them, on continual self improvement. Or you can listen to the nonsense, ‘oh you’re a nice guy, things will happen in time’, I wonder what type of men these women themselves go for. You’re mad? Use your anger to be constructive. Don’t waste it with the self pity and nice guy rubbish. I’m not saying that you should become a bastard, you should be yourself, but you have to recognise that it’s a tough and competitive world out there!

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