Oh boy... or girl!

My boyfriend and I have been together for quite some time. We’re talking about getting married in July and everythings everything in the relationship. I wanna have his baby, and I just don’t know a good way to tell him that I want his sperm. You know guys are extremely selfish at times when it comes to that. How do I approach him without scaring him to death?

Answer #1

Now is the time in your relationship to ask and lay all your cards and his cards on the table…..you ask if he wants to have children…and when he would like them….even ask how many? Also ask about what faith you would bring the children up in…..and about disipline decisions…. All the important things about family life cuz your future together is all about you and him and family…. Family values…..commitments…it goes on and on… Don’t be like some couples who learn these things….and wish they never had gotten married because they just assumed thats what the other wanted too.

P.S. If he still agrees…..and wants kids then you can tell him you look forward to a beautiful future together when you can have and give him a baby of your own.

Good Luck!

Answer #2

Ok, well if your getting married in july then its a good sign that he wants to be with you. Now you need to have the baby talk, see if he wants children becos if he doesnt then you have a decision to make! if he does then thats good, after you get married then talk about when it would suit you both to have a baby! but you really should get married first.

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