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Why did our connection die when we started dating?

Me and my boyfriend were friends for 8 years before we started dating. We’ve been going out for a month and a half now. But when we were just friends I felt more of a connection than I do now. Why is that? And what should I do? If you can answer that! Like when we were friends I felt closer than I do now that we’re dating! I mean I really do love him and he loves me, but I just don’t feel like our relationship with each other is as close as it once was!

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Answer #1

Becos you were friends with him for so long, its hard to see him as a bf now thats all. Maybe you were just to good of friends to be together, just give it more time, you are both growing to get used to each other in a different way, and if you still feel like this in a few months then maybe you should consider seperating.

Answer #2

hey me and my corrent girlfriend were friend for almost 10 years before we starting dating. i understand where you are coming form. i would chalk it up to yall working out the awkardnest because of yall being friends so long. id stick in there for a while before making a decision either way but try to make it work out. the best of luck.

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