What if I don't want to commit to her?

MY GF IS ASKING ME 2 GET MARRIED 2 HER IF NOT NOW BUT WHEN IM READY.BUT THE TRUTH IS TAT IVE NEVER CONCIDERED HER AS MARRIAGE MATERIAL.HOW SHOULD I CONVEY THIS WITHOUT HURTING HER?

Answer #1

I agree with angel. I think it is cruel to lead the girl on. If you do not see yourself having a future with her, then tell her so and move on. Otherwise it’s like you’re just using her so you have partner until someone “better” comes along, and that would just be selfish.

Answer #2

If shes not marriage material, then WHY are you still with her? Why are you with her period? Are you dating her for only one reason..and when something better comes along, dump her? You are only leading her on. How could you stay in a relationship, when you never had intentions on building a future with her? I think you are cruel, and very insensitive!! She doesnt deserve you!! NOTHING you say can justify your behavior! She is going to be hurt, by anything you say……..and she has EVERY right to be!!

In MY opinion, your not marriage material either!!

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