How can I hang on to this marriage for my kids?

I think I was a good provider over the years. My wife cheated on me while I worked 12 hour days, we separated and got back after 7 mo. She got jealous seeing cars coming and going at my residence. After 24 years I am just fried I let go,but she rides me continuously over taking pain meds and occasional Valium,can’t sleep. If anybody had 10 million dollars they couldn’t make her happy. My daughter was 8 mo when the incident occured now 14 1/2/ son 19 1/2. I wanted them to know their dad and I wanted them to have good times to remember (MY dad walked at 1 mo old never knew him). I am now tired and losing it ? what do you think

Answer #1

I am sorry to hear this.I feel for you. It’s not to let start a new life all about you.you have done your job just forget about the old life. That’s was no way to live. just like the jimmy buffit song.wasteing away again. the pain meds help forget i know it’s ezer being numb.

Answer #2

Ouch, I feel your pain. You will get sympathy and empathy here but neither of those is what you realy need. You have deep issues to work thru that will take professional or at least trained people to help you with them. A lot depends on you and how badly you want to save the marriage. To do it just for the kids may not be the right answer. Keep in touch. And accept my prayers. Gino

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