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well I have these 2 bestfriends named paige and ally and we have been bestfriends since like forever but now we are in middle school and ally and paige go to the same school and I go to a different school and we were planning on going to the twilight movie on the 22nd and but then I asked them on the phone if we were still going to movie together but they said that just me,paige,my mom and paiges mom are going and I said but you guys said that I was going to.then she said well you can go if you want but the tickets are sold on the 22nd and 21rst and I guess me and paige just got lucky. and now I feel like im being letf out on everything because we used to be bestfriends in elemantary school and now there doing everything together and not including me in anything and I dont think there being mean about it but they forgot invitng me now im left out :( please help me

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unfortunately, this is going to happen a lot as you hrow up. you should stay in touch with paige and ally, but really try to go make new friends at your school. your friends are going to continue to change all the way through high school, its just a part of geting older. paige and ally arent leaving you out on purpose or to be mean, as you said, but since they go to school together they see each other everyday and it is easier for them to make plans. what you need are some new friends at your school. and you can all hang out together or hang out with your new friends sometimes and you old friends sometimes. you are not the only person this happened to, so try to find someone else feeling the same way. or maybe you have some people you are friendly with but not super close to? try to get closer to them. invite people places and be friendly to everyone, dont just wait for people to ask you to do things. good luck with your friends!

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