What would be a good hair color for me?

A little info first. My natural hair color is dark blonde, blueish/green eyes, pink undertones and fair skin. 2 months ago I had my hair 2 toned dumb mistake. dark brown on the bottom, and the top was a yellowish gold color, did not like it so Nov 7th I went to a different stylist and she said she didn’t want to strip the hair so she put bleach in between the dark brown and then applied the dark blond color all over and colored on top of color and it came out a dark blonde with gold/red tones does not match my skin color. I have no choice other then to have it stripped to get all those colors out and re dye it to my desired color. I’m going to pick a neutral beige blonde this time. Do not want anything with red, gold orange, or yellow blonde in it. I am going to be 41 soon so I do have a little grey on the top near my root area and they say that beige blonde hair color will cover it. I would like to stay at least 2 shades of my natural hair color, and am also thinking about doing lowlights, which color would look good. If anyone has any suggestions on a beige color let me know. I’m going to wait until the end of next month to have it stripped. My hair is actually pretty health beleive it or not.

Thank you for your time Rhonda