Need help with stage fright/public speaking please!

Ok so Im a freshman in college and last semester I had to give an oral report on my term paper in front of a 30+ person class. Sadly enough I had a total panic attack, I could hardly speak, my hands were shaking,I couldnt think straight, the whole deal. It was horrible and being in front of that many people made it really hard to hide and try to calm myself while still talking/making sense. I have an Oral Comm class this coming semester and really need to get over this. Im kind of a shy person when it comes to groups but one on one Im fine with people. Also this attack came out of nowhere so if anyone has advice on how to calm down while pubic speaking that would be a help too.

Answer #1

when you get up there , breathe in through your nose and out of your mouth a couple times before you speak , when you feel like a panic attack is coming on , stop for a second and breathe a little , clear your throat and continue , good luck :)

Answer #2

Just tell your teacher that you have problems with speaking in front of many people and you don’t feel like having another attack. Also tell him you are fine to read it to him. Maybe you could plan on your speaking with one person and then two and then three- then it goes higher and higher and you can practice like that.

Answer #3

I have the exact same problem. I refused to do oral speaking at school and I of course failed but I didn’t care, my phobia was that bad I just chose to fail! :( I don’t know how to help but would be interested if anyone else can.

Answer #4

THERE ARE PEOPLE LIKE ME! YES!

…sorry, XD. I experience something similar. Though mine is more of my mind leaving my body while I’m speaking and I’m shaking all over.

What I do usually is to focus on a wall, or a clock or something while I’m speaking. Something to where you aren’t looking at the audience, but still LOOK like you’re speaking to them. What I’m doing (and it’s helping) is to get at first two people together, read something like a book passage to them, and then continue to grow the group until it’s a pretty large group. If you don’t have enough friends to do this to a significant degree- I also joined a book club. Just try different kinds of clubs where the people are large in number and easygoing, and try building up your confidence.

Hope this helps!

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