Need help. Minor and Adult got caught having sex..

lilly102 that’s a bunch of bull! the way she talks ‘bout him it seems like daer really in love! I’ve never felt that way bout anyone! ever, I’ve been in love yea but, to stop eatin’ and not having interest in otha tings I tell you that is TRUE love! I think all you can do babe is just try and get the time to pass by. Frimple, I’m in a case against my step dad for sexual harassment. but I’m trying to get the charges dropped because I’ve fogiven him and I care more bout my lil’ sis’s feelings than my sanity. but seriously if your asked to court or some ting like that then try and drop the changes. it should help! hoping it works but I don’t know! try and get a case to it!

I can totally relate to this.. something similar happened to me less than a year ago and im still not over it, granted it didnt involve sex but he went to jail hes out now but we havent talked since june, I miss him more than anything in the world and nobody seems to understand.. its gonna be really hard to get over, like I said im still not over it. everything, even stupid little things remind me of him, I still have his voicemails so when im feeling really down I have something to comfort me eventhough its not the same, there are a few things he gave me that I refuse to let anyone touch especially the hoodie he gave me cause it smells like him.. also this may seem stupid but my mom has been nagging me to clean my room but im afraid to because of what I might find from him that will upset me..when he first went to jail I unintentionally threw myself into depression, I didnt eat for almost 3 weeks just drank juice and water, id make myself throw up, sit and listen to songs that reminded me of him, nothing helped I was miserable and my family didnt support me very much because they didnt approve of the age difference. I still think about him everyday and I dont think that will ever change, I gave him my heart and it seems like you did the same, your story sounds so much like mine and im sorry its gonna be so hard, if you need to talk let me know ill gladly talk to you about it, I’ve been trying to find someone that has been in my situation and that I can talk to but nobody understands. im sorry, let me know if you need anything.

lilly102 the guy is only 10 years older than her…think bout paligamy…16 year olds having to marry 50 year old guys…that’s even worse…so frimple you just keep fighting for him! and babe, hold on and wait for him!

stay away from this man. He is nothing but trouble. You’ll be scarred the rest of your life from what he’s already done.

There’s not a lot you can do right now hun, he’s in jail so it’s not like you can do anything about it. You just need to pull yourself through this and remember things will get better whether its with him or not. This is a risk he was obviously willing to take and the worst came out of it, it happens and there’s nothing you can do at this point.

oh honey I’m sorry, I once dated a 26 year old when I was 16 and if we’d gotten caught i’m sure I would have been just as heart broken as you are, when I’m really sad about guys nnormally i sit and cry and cry and cry listening to all the love songs on my ipod. If you want to be happy, you should delete them all, eat lots of chocolate, and maybe I dont know… tell as many people as you can that he didn’t hurt you and that what he did wasn’t wrong. I’m sure if you tell the right people the truth. Good things will happen. I hope that he gets out soon and you can be happy together :) just keep on keeping on.