What if I have a crush on my fiance's friend?

Well you have put yourself in a bad situation, if you really truly loved your fiance then wouldn’t have these thoughts of your fiances best friend… in my opinion if you try and make it work with your friend its just going to end up going down hill in the end… you will lose your fiance forever, and on top of that he will no longer be friends with this guy for stealing his girl while he is away in training or in iraq… you really need to step back and take a look at this picture, because if all this is happening before you even get married… do you really think this relationship is going to workout for the long hall? I know you don’t have a time machine… but you should really look into the future on this one… because things are not looking very sunny if keep up what you are thinking… and to be honest i think you know this… its just hard for you. If i were you and you really want to keep things good with your fiance they cut off all connection with your friend… i mean talk to him occasianly.. but if you keep this up its going to get ugly… but i dont know… its a tough situation. Just think about it… because i know this… if i was your fiance and in training… and i found out my friend was with my girl… ooo my…. specially if i was in iraq… that would be dangerous… his head would not be in the right spot for the mission…. and it could get him killed… so think about it … maybe you should just end it all together with your fiance… because you know he is in the military… and its going to be tough for you….

best wishes jason

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