need help

I’d really consider the consequences first…if you think you could live with yourself afterward, I guess go for it…but the guilt would eat at me for the rest of my life…just be careful

If you want more than a relationship, having sex isnt going to get you one. Sex doesnt make a guy fall for you, or commit to you. ~Guy wants sex~, ~girl gives guy what he wants~, ~guy stays with girlfriend~, ~girl gets used~, ~end of contact with guy.~ He wants sex from you, not a relationship! If satisfaction is number one in your relationship, either seek out a sex counselor, or find a guy whos SINGLE! If you dont know how to please yourself, then you cant expect your boyfriend to know how to please you. Its ALL about communication. Dont use lack of satisfaction in your relationship to justify screwing another guy. I think you need to learn what love truly is!

nothing, though I really do want him but I want him for more than just sex.

what are you afraid of? having sex with him?

what have you guys done? if you want to you can just e-mail me. that way nobody sees what we are talking about. :P

but its nothing he can do. tried everything

then you need to talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you want to be satisfied