Do you think he's been cheating by the sound of this?

Okay, my ex and I were kind of seeing each other again, and well I was holding his cell phone and a text message came up from another girl ( my ex wasn’t in the room ) so I read it.. ( I know I shouldn’t of but..he doesn’t know and never will, & I can’t tell him =S ) She said all sorts of things like.. : “I miss you baby, I love you hun, we can do crazy things when you come over again”, and worse things like that.. =’( Now we’re dating.. ( I shouldn’t of gave in ..)I don’t know if I should stay around.. will he cheat on me.. did he basically cheat on me there? I love him alot, and he loves mee too. I just hope things could work out.

Answer #1

If you and your ex were just kind of seeing each other when this other girl came in the picture..then you cant really say he cheated. If he is still involved with her now that you two are dating…then you have reason to be curious. Your in a tough situation. Your going to have to pay attention to his every move basically. Like how his behavior is towards you. Does he want to spend alot of time with you? Does he call you alot? Does he ditch you if something else comes up. Does he tell you he loves you, and actually shows you. Just take things slow with him this time around, and dont pour your heart out to him only to be stepped on. You have to keep in mind why it ended the first time, and just take things 1 day at a time. Just dont go accusing him of something your not 100% sure of.

Answer #2

If you love him, and he also loves you, then you may let him to play around a little. You may also ask him about that “crazy things”. Maybe it is interesting. A simple cheating is not interesting at all..That is just like a masturbation.

Answer #3

hhmm,…sounds tricky, maybe cos you were only seeing each other he thought it was ok.Now that you are actually together again just keep an eye on it and if you see anything suspicious let him know.

Answer #4

well, some of these girls came over and ask me if i was going out with myboyfriend and i told yeah! y she’s like well how long r u guys been dating i said well like 1 week. Then she is like well he going out with my friend and he was with her yesturday and i was like what? i was talkin with him all day. And she’s like well if she finds out about u she probaly do something to u…. but then i ask my bf and he’s like well its all a bunch a lies. Before he ask me out he told me for me not to belive what other people say about him…..so what should i do??????

Answer #5

well, love is about trust and u should trust him. if u say he loves u then he wont cheat on u. maybe she is his ex and she wants him back. next time dont be so nosy there are ways that ppl can tell that someone looked at there stuff. by being nosy it says u dont trust him and if he finds out u looked at his stuff he might break it off with u. i think u should stay with him now and if u definatly no that he is cheating on u break it off. but if u break it off now then u might regret ur decition. u could be missunderstanding the situation. well, i hope i helped.

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