My wife still talks to her ex-boyfriend

My wife is still with her boyfriend.. even we are 15 years married even she told me that some our kids are hims.. but we are happy and we have not problems. She going to sleep over to his place for few days and after come to me and somethime going on hollidays with him e.t.c but I am happy when my wife is happy and we like it! so you can try it also!

Try confronting her again. If she loves you enough, then she wouldn’t have had an affair anyway. Let her know how you feel about the entire situaion, and I mean the entire situation. Think about what you want to do and tell her what you want to do. If that means “taking a break” or a divorce, then she can be with him all she wants and you don’t have to suffer for it. But if you have kids, then consider them to, if not, then it makes it a little easier, not a lot, because I’m sure you love her. Good luck to you!

thanks man .. I have tried all there is to try… she knows exactly how I feel … but still there is something about her that is not letting her forget that dude. If I confront it again either we are heading for the court or she would undermine our relationship thinking that I cant do sh**t … sticky situation…thanks for your advice though.

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tell her that she needs to be upfront with you and if she doesnt stop your going to leave her