Is my way of life bad?

is this bad? I’ve always had a wanting to be a drug dealer and be in a gang ever scince I was little I was always hanging out with the hood rats im not a wigger I just fit in more with the ghetto style people and its kinda getting dangerous im getting to be pretty abd a$$ breaking into houses and other stuff and evryone of my friends at school think im a drug dealer or in a gang and they point it out a lot because I have sumwhat of a crew were I live its a small community and a lot of people at out school point it out that wer act different dress different and what not wer not wiggers its just the way weve beenfor as long as I can remember and now its showing a lot more im always wereing ghetto style clothes like g-unit and what not and gold watches and bling and what not I dont mind it but im wondering about my future what should I do because im not in a gang or a drug dealer but I wudnt mind to be?

Answer #1

ok man,honestly, I’m not just saying this because it’s “the right thing to do”, but it’s not as glamorous as you think it is

I’m hispanic and I used to live in california where there was A LOT of gang problems,well my older borther got involved in that stuff because everyone was doing it and it was just the thing to do,he got drawn to it

well he went through all that, he got arrested a few times, for pocession of a hand gun, and others for dealing drugs, after a few years all he wanted to do is just get out of it because he was sick and tired of living in fear of getting shot down

now he’s glad that he’s out, he has a family in all, everything is going well for him

so my advice to you is, don’t go down that road, it may seem good right now but it won’t after a while, do something good with your life, accopmlish something, make your family proud, show your friends that you can achieve better things

good uck I hope you make the right choices in life

Answer #2

Brandi I love you like my own sis.. Yes I think you doin all this stuff is bad.. you do drugs and you can kill your self.. I dont think your life is bad but it could be in the next year..It sucks that I have to sit here and c my friend die caz of drugs…Life hits you fast brandi .. One day your all durg free the next your doin it caz Every one else is.. Not every 1 is.. Im not sayin that you need to stop hangin out with your friend s but you dont have to do drugs.. Yes it wil be super hard to stop and when you do you will want to do some but you will be happy that you chang ed.. Just think , when you get older and have kids they will do it caz you are and they wont care what you say caz All they will think is ( Hay my mom is doin drugs so That means we can..) Like I said Brandi I love you like my own sis and well If it was up to me I would beat your a$$ for doin drugs..Just caz I love u../

:)

Answer #3

Consider the consequences of what you’re doing. Where will this lifestyle take you? I’m sure it helps you cope with things and feel more in control of your life but you aren’t in control if you don’t know where you’re going. You’re behind the steering wheel - stop and check the map.

Answer #4

so what exactly what type of answer are you looking for? what’s the question, because you just kinda rambled on ‘bout your life, so I didn’t understand the question

Answer #5

should I keep going on this way because I dont plan on having a wifer or kids or should I get out now

Answer #6

With your trajectory you will be dead or in jail in a few years. If that’s where you want to be, you’ll make it.

Answer #7

I know I dont think its glamorus its just how I live

Answer #8

haha that’s what my brother said but now, his family is his life, his two kids is his whole life

to tell you the truth I want to tell you to try to get out now because what you’re only f*cking 14, you still have time to make right choices and get ahead in life, instead when you’re 21 strung out on drugs living in an empty apartment, selling drugs just to buy drugs…then you’ll finally realize that you want to get out, and I don’t want to sound all dramatic and like dr. phil, but it’ll most likely be too late

you could be going to school pursueing a great degree where you can be succesful and get bank,live in a big ss house and buy a sht load of lowriders, and live the life of a rap star

you choose, druggie or the guy with a f*cking house

Answer #9

well you seem to be just another kid tring to fit in, maybe when your friends want to do drugs and deal em or break into houses maybe you should think , “do I want to go to jail and prove all those people right” (because you will go to jail sooner or later if you do those things) and all those people who point out that you are a drug dealer because of the people you hang out with, way you look, and act. you will be proving them right. and if you really want to deal drugs go a head find out for yourself it’s not as great as everyone might say it is. and jail sure as hell ain’t no party. you only get one life one chance one try at this so do it right don’t hang out with people who will get you in trouble think for yourself think about what will happen if you do this or what will happen if you do that

Answer #10

U just need to think about it more what would you do if u had a kid and you was do and all that stuff then you would be in something u cant get out of you will lose your girl and your kid then you would be nothing with out them. also it may lead you to death tehn your hole family would be sad and down.. Do you really want that??? just go to God pray and try your best to get out..

Answer #11

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