My usless excuse for a mother!

OK sooo my mum is a twat and I dont need to go into the ins an outs of it but im 13 and I need her shes 47 and I havnt seen her for 4 years because she got involved with a man in the drugs line Hes ded because of this now but my mum isnt sooo I want to see her but my daddie who is AMAZING has said no for my safety because I almost got vry ill when I was liccle because I got so stressed out for gods sake I had to call an ambulance at 6! several times! but I need her you know because shes my mummy bud dad said not till im 16 but I cant wait another 3 years. I need her! shes silly but still my mum and its making me deeply depressed and affecting everything dont just say tlk 2 ure dad and dont worry im getting counciling but now wht do I do I know there all looking out 4 me BUT IM NOT GETTING A F’ING SAY AT ALL AND ITS MY LIFE I always feel guilty when I tlk bout her because shes done so many bad things but I am only small still I guess but I need 2 know wht ure advice is FAST!

Answer #1

hey, sweetie, I’m sorry to hear this… but saying your depressed and was very ill from the stress, I’m sure your dad doesn’t want to see you go through that again.. and if your mom felt the sameway she would have cleaned her act up already…

Answer #2

Any woman can be a mother, but it takes a special kind of woman to be a mommy.

I’m sorry, but your mother failed you in the mommy department, and now your dad just doesn’t want to see you get hurt all over again. He knows what he’s doing and what’s best for you. It may not seem to make sense now, but someday you’ll understand.

Answer #3

I think you will have to speak to your dad, but be very serious and make it seem like you ABSOLUTELY HAVE TO see her, and tel him how you feel, you can suggest that you guys see her together and when you are all together you should bring up how hard it is not to have her around and that should open the door way to more visits and maybe a few days alone if you convince him. But by the way you know wats good for you, so if she gets involved with other bad people then just have short visits with you dad until she pulls straight if possible. And you should try not to be depressed because if she doesnt get to spend time with you its her loss and you shouldnt feel bad about talking about her, after all, she did the bad things not you. Hope I helped ( :

Answer #4

It’s only natural that you want to see her - trust your Dad’s best judgement here - he is looking after your best interests - respect that - just let him know how important this is to you and to let you know as soon as he thinks it’s possible…I wish you every happiness !!

Answer #5

thanks I’ll try but the depretion hasnt gone yet it might take time

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