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My mom is ridiculous

Okay, so I’m not trying to sit her and vent and make everyone pissed at me, because I know that many different people have it wayyy way worse than me. However, right now…

I’ve just been like wicked sad and depressed and kinda stuck on what to do. I live with my mom and little sister with my step dad, billy. My mom and I are constantly fighting. The minute everything seems to be going well with her something absolutly horrendous happens.
She wont let me get a therapist and she wont let me ever contact my dad to even say hi. Sometimes I just want to pick up my stuff and leave, I just love her to much to that to her after what I witnessed her doing when my older sister did the same thing her junior year of high school.

My friends talk of me getting emancipated and all that but I dont have a job and I never talk to my dad. :/ My sister laughs when I tell her I want too but I really think that it just might be the best idea right now! I cant stand living with a horrible mom my mother is.

Any advice at all? =/

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Answer #1

well you can also look at it in a different way and think in a few years you’ll be out of the house anyway…if you lasted this long you can probably last a little longer. it will make you very strong in the end. your mom might just have a lot of problems, you say you love her to much to just leave so be there for her. try to agree with her just to avoid fights as long as she isn’t abusing you in any way. instead of focusing on your home life and letting it get you extremely upset, think about what great friends you have. they’ll help you get through it

Answer #2

your mom should have no reason whatsoever to keep you from talking to your dad. he is your father and you have rights as a human being to talk to him.

I would say to you to talk to school counselor or trusted teacher…and if not any one of them…then how about the parent of a close friend? or a grandparent? you need to see your father and talk to him, so do so…its only healthy…

just look…try to take calm rationale steps and talk to a trusted adult soon and let them know how you’re feeling…

Answer #3

all I could say to you is show her a lot of respect and show her that your very mature and you are extremely capable of making good decisions, once she notices this in you she will probably trust you more. I understand she causes a LOT of problems since you have to cancel on your friends but they should understand your moms just very strict and if they think its weird then they aren’t your true friend anyway. don’t let it affect you too much. your very right when you say people have it way worse. everyone has a part of their life that just sucks. yours may just happen to be your home family. it’s very possible for you to be happy don’t let this make you unhappy

Answer #4

I agree with her on pretty much everything. just shes always in a bad mood you know? tonight I did make a mistake and I told her to stop yelling at me and raising her voice :x I just didnt want to here her all mad over something really stupid. ugh.

I just want to be a happy person and live life. but shes restraining me from doing so. I was incredibly happy with my ex the reason for our brake up was mostly her because she didnt like him. shes just to strict sometimes. likee she cancelled my bonfire that I have 30 kids coming to tomorrow, what the heck am I supposed to say to all my friends? its not the first time I had to cancel. =/

Answer #5

lol no problem, im glad I can help!!

Answer #6

awhh that put a smile to my face. haha thanks!<3

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