Is my husband out of love with me?

Once again Sue 90 is right on the money. As a man, and one that has gone thru more than one mid life crisis, may I add?. A mans worth and value isn’t based on the same foundation as a woman’s. Your caring about yours in cleaning and cooking. That is good and I am sure that he appreciates it. But that is where your security and value are. His is in his being respected, and honored. At home and at every other part of his life. It would be a good thing if you and he could sit down and talk, but guys are strange about that kind of thin, I know. Soooo let him know how much you respect him for his best efforts at work and in his other interests and how much he means to you and that you have confidence in him. Ask him if there is anything more you could do for him. You are wondering already, right? Is he getting taken care of better somewhere/ or by someone else.? That is one of the first things a wife thinks about when the fire is dwindling low in the fireplace at home. So talk about it. Be his closest friend in every aspect that you can. Don’t feel guilty or that you have failed. But please let him know that you are in this for the long term and that together you are invincible. Good luck. Gino