My heart hurts

My bestfriends mom doesn’t like it when me and her hangout everyday. I asked miley if her mom hates me and she said no but I always get this awkward vibe and it makes me feel really really uncomfortable. When miley tells me this I get sad and stuff because her mom always talks about how she likes her other friends and stuff in front of me and it hurts me. I don’t really have that many friends anymore at all for many reasons and so basically I just hangout with miley and she loves hanging out we live next door, were really close. And all her friends do not like me at all and it makes me sad bc a lot of people don’t. I just don’t know why her mom doesn’t like me anymore. She’s always like “miley you’re not hanging out with jessica tomorrow you have for too long” and it hurts me! I don’t really have anyone. Miley an I are best friends an I want her mom to accept it, it really hurts me, really much.

Help/stories..

Answer #1

Aw hun, I’m sorry, crazy08 is right, an adult is supposed to be more mature than that. Look, she wants what is best for her child, and maybe she has the wrong impression of you. I understand you’re worried that she will keep you away from your only friend, and then you’ll be completely alone. It is a perfectly reasonable thing to be concerned about. Problem is you cant control what she will and will not do. Dont worry about it so much, and try and concentrate on other things. Let me tell you something, I honestly doubt that a lot of people dont like you. I think you just havent met the right people. Miley likes you. So you cant be all that awful. You probably put up walls in ways you dont even realize because you’re so sure that you wont be liked. I can already tell you’re someone who is sensitive and caring. And that’s just off one message. I’m sure you have plenty of other great attributes. So stop guessing what Miley’s mother thinks of you, start noticing ways in which you probably keep people away, and you’re going to be just fine. And who cares if her friends dont particularly care for you? My best friend and I, we have totally opposite choice in friendships. Neither of us can stand each others friends. But that’s okay… All you gotta do is allow others in (I promise you, you are a likable person), and you will make friends! I’m guessing you’re in your teens? You’re going to be ok… And if things are still getting to you, consider talking to your school counselor…

Answer #2

I really dont know what to say. when my friends mom made fun of me to our other friends and I told my mom, she just said “anyone who acts like that as an adult is completly stupid!that is so inappropriate!” just try to ignore her, or get miley to talk to her mom about it. sorry this is happening to u! :(

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