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My girlfriends parents dont really like me that much

I’m having this small problem with my girlfriends parents. Its not that there bipolar which they are. its that they don’t like me. I know this b/c of the fact that they are really nice to me to my face right and then I hear them backstabbing me on the way out the door. When I’m on the phone with my girlfriend I can hear there arguments in the other room about how they cant trust me. Then when I’m with them they tell me they trust me and they would do anything for me but when im gone they say I’m terrible. Her parents favor one of there daughters(which theres two of them) and then leaves the other one(who is my girlfriend) out of the picture. I don’t like them but I’m trying to hold everything together. Im trying to gain trust in there family, try to keep my girlfriend from taring there eyes out (figuratively speaking), and my family hates them which doesnt help at all so im just trying to stop a family feud b/c I do not want to end up like something out of romeo and juliet. it maybe my favorite book but I do not want to be like that. Help please

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Answer #1

thank you, I have talked to them in the past but like you said they are being childish. it sucks b/c they think there always write and that we are always wrong and just last night they tried to take away my girlfriends curfew and make me only be able to see her pretty much on Saturdays for like 3 hours but I had a talk with them and she said she gives up and that ill never understand and me and my girlfriend do what we want b/c she doesnt care anymore. So now there treating her like they dont care about her anymore and its hurting me to. Thanks tho for your support.

Answer #2

the best thing to do is try to talk to them. tell them that you really care for their daughter and you wouldn’t hurt her. I will also give you the same advice I gave your girlfriend. I no its hard but ignore the nasty comments they say. they will be the ones looking like fools in all of this. they will be the ones that look immature and childish. sorry I don’t have better advice but I hope I helped :] funmail me if you need more advice. in the meantime I will try to think of more advice to give you about the situation.

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