My girlfriend wants me to "teach" her!!!???

My girlfriend wants to know how to “please” me… She said she wants me to teach her but I dont know how to do that without it being really really weird!!! I have done thiings to her (fingering) and she wants to return the favor but she isnt quite sure how to and she feels bad… Its not her fault she was just reall sheltered as a kid. Any advice is greatly apprechiated!!! Fun mail me any time!!!

Answer #1

Never be afraid to tell her wats going on,Lay down the law,tell it how it is,ect. If you want her to Do something just come out of your box an tell her/show her how you want her to do it.

Answer #2

Well, if its so weird for you to communicate to your girlfriend, then maybe you shouldnt be doing anything sexual! Besides, your a guy, you should know how to “teach” her!

Answer #3

just tell her what you want her to do. who cares how weird it is. if you teach her wrong, well in the future other guys will know and she wont be good. her future love life depends on you!!! just kidding… kinda. she wants to make you happy tell her how, you should be able to talk to her. besides when a guy talks to a girl. shows her what to do, even if it’s awkwards or messed up she’ll be more open in return. she’ll be more comfortable with talking to you about things. it’ll pay off. tell her what to do, give detail, be patient if she messes up.

Answer #4

if you cant tell her with words because ull get embarass or something show her. when you fingering her undo your own pants take it out grab her hand and guide. ACTUALLY hold her hand for a while then it would be weird ull both feel good. I know that what my babe did for me when I asked him to teach me. if she shy like I was wit my boyfriend she’ll prob move her hand once you let go honeslty I did it because I thought he was done. obviously will time she’ll catch on like the rest of us. but if you want a blow job you gnna have to wordly explain to her what to do. if she sheltered like I was she wont know what a blow job is till you tell her. dont have sex im pretty sure she not ready for that at all. good luck.

Answer #5

maby sex or head

Answer #6

Teach her babe, thats what she want haha.

Answer #7

just tell her, go in to full on detail and show her. me and my boyfriend are really open with things like this and it makes us closer because we know we can talk to each other about things like this, dont worry if you feel stupid, you will at first, but once you’ve taught her and shes ‘pleasing’ you then you’ll realise it was worth it :) x

Answer #8

she is beeing shy. thats cute just help her she doesnt want to feel dumb cause she doesnt know what she is doing. trust me thats a good thing. you should make her feel more comfy with it all.

Answer #9

why does every one say sex .. head would be kinda the same thing as fingering and its like a first step so I think head would be okay then afterwards have sex if you want to ==;’’

Answer #10

Dude just have sex she probably wants it

Answer #11

hehe, naughty thoughts reminds me of my girlfriend. She just watched me mastrebate in front of her and after that she did the rest. winks

Answer #12

Just tell her. it won’t be weird once the pleasure kicks in. it will be sooo worth it

Answer #13

take her hand in your hand, show her how you grab yourself

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