my girlfriend treats me bad..

yu shouldnt have to put up with that yu deserve thee best and thats it if she treats yu bad tell her yu don’t like it or tell her how yu feel. things might get worse or better. trust me im havin my own issues with ethan bt I tell em how I feel and we try to work thru things. just tell her how yu feel k :)

(Don’t mind me, I refer to boys and girls the same way :])

if you can’t talk to her then it’s not worth your time. It’s not a relationship if there isn’t communication and respect.

*or you

I’ve been through this before. I dated this girl for almost 6 years. I loved her and would have died for her. I worked my arse off to provide for her, and we planned a future together. For the first year, she was great. After that, she turned b*tchier every year. Until the last 2 years, she was a nightmare. She would point out my flaws, nag at me, always tell me what I was doing wrong, how I could be better. Nothing I did was enough for her, and everything I did was lacking in some way. It made me drink more, and want to hurt myself. I didn’t value my life any more because when someone is constantly getting mad at your and telling you how horrible you are, you start to believe it yourself.

I used to walk on eggshells around her to not say or do something that might make her mad … but she would get mad anyways and lash out at me. For years I had no peace of mind, and I was depressed, suicidal and miserable every day. I couldn’t take it and I had to end the relationship a few months ago.

It was hard for me because I was so used to having a girlfriend for so long. She would guilt me and tell me I was abandoning her. She did everything to make me stay and she even began being nice to me for the first time in years.

I was strong and just worked harder in my career and tried not to think about how bad it was. When you break up, you only remember the good and none of the bad. So you make really bad decisions like getting back together.

I stuck it out, and it’s been a few months now. She’s still very sad and I am too, but I can either be miserable for a few months now, or miserable the rest of my life if we were to get married.

Life is too short to be unhappy. If she treats you bad and she has no reason to, she may just be damaged or insecure, or even trying to power struggle in the relationship. Some girls treat their men bad on purpose so they can “fight back” and they want to see them stand up for themselves. But these types of tests are childish and poison for a relationship. If she doesn’t make you want to be a better man, and if she doesn’t want make you feel BETTER about yourself, no WORSE, leave.

I’m speaking from experience. It’s the the best thing you can do for yourself and your sanity.

Ok, dude… I’ll be straight with ya, buddy.

I’ve been through the same thing… I was datin’ a girl for 1 year and 5 months. In the first month, she was like… awesome. But then, she suddenly turned into a friggin’ b*tch.

I use to do ALL she asked me. I’d give my life to save hers… What I get in return? Bad tratin’… She use to treat me like a trash. I’ve never been so unhappy…

Sometimes, she pissed me off so bad, that I felt like hittin’ her. I didn’t want to hurt her, so I use to hurt myself… Today, I have a big scar on my arm to remind me, and make me feel ashame, of what I did.

I was in love with her, yes. But in January last year I grew tired of all that and said “ENOUGH” I broked up with her…

Yes, I was sad. At first, the pain was burin’ me on the inside. I thought about callin’ her a billion times and ask her to be mine again. But I was strong enough not to do that…

As time went by, I found out a new person… I’m datin’ her for 7 months now. And you know what? It’s amazing. She’s perfect. I love her more then anything and she loves me too. We were both made for each other. She makes me feel the only one, makes me feel special… I’ve never been so happy in my life.

I wasn’t happy anymore. My life use to suck… I don’t wish for anyone what heppened to me back there, when I was datin’ the other girl.

My advice for you, buddy, is broke up. Eventually, you’ll find a better person. You’ll see it’s the right choice.

Please, bro… think about this. I’m pretty sure it’s the right thing to do. But that’s up to you, my boy.

Good luck.