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What if my girlfriend gets mad that I don't want to have sex?

Ok so I’m 17 and my girlfriend is 14 and lately she’s been asking me if I would have sex with her. But I think she’s not ready for sex but I don’t know maby she is ready I’ve told her that we need to wait till she’s a little older and knows all the risk the only sexual thing that we have done is like me eating her out and her giveing me a blowjob we did 69 one time but we never have really had sex I kinda want to wait till I’m married to have actual sex but I don’t want her to get mad at me for not haveing sex with her.

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Answer #1

Be legal and wait. Thats obvious. You’re showing a mature, thoughtful though process. Don’t loose that because she wants to have sex. She probably has it as something way more wonderful than it actually is, and there needs to be a responsible on in the relasionship to hold out until both of you are physically, mentally and emotionally mature. You’re age and thankfully, your personality has made you have to take that role. And I just hope you can hold out long enough. Waiting untill you’re marriged is a great idea and I also believe in that. Don’t compromise it for her.

And last but not least, if she gets angry, tell her how it is straight. Don’t go aorund the houses. You love her, but you dont want to have sex with her yet, and simply put, you WON’T. Make sure she knows it’s not because you find her ugly or soemthing silly, if she gets upset. Even let her know it is showing respect for her body. And beofre she argues, let her know you;d like to be shown the same respect, and that she agree not to rush into having sex.

I hope this helps and I truly hope it all works out for the both of you.

be strong, however lame that sounds. lol

=] x

Answer #2

mate, she ain’t legal.

Answer #3

she should not get mad at you for looking out for her and personally I think it is best to wait till you find your true love you are going to marry and you never know if you do and you to break up she could turn around and get you in trouble with the law for having sex I know someone that had that happen to them.

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