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My girlfriend has bad dreams about me

Ok so my girlfriend keeps dreaming bad things about me like today she told me that she dreamt that she went to my school and that she saw me with another girl and that I was going out with her instead of my current girl and well she said that supposedly in the dream someboy started a rumor that she and I had sexual relations and that the “girl” I was with found out got mad at me and that everybody hated my real girlfriend and that I did too and she told me that I would do harsh things like drop her books,push her off the bus,write sk@nk/wh0re on her locker,threw her in the boys restroom,asked the dream girlfriend to pour milk on her and that I supposedly asked her to prom and that she was so happy and excited because she thought I wouldn’t talk to her because of the rumors and that I was with the dream girlfriend in the limo and that I said something like “please I would never go out with you” and I dumped her in the gym and she she was heartbroken and committed suicide in the cafeteria where the prom was being held at by hanging herself and that me and the dream girlfriend saw her laughed and walked away…

So after she told me this I felt like really sad and like such a jerk and I hate myself for that even though I didn’t do it and that it was a dream I feel like really horrible right now and so I was wondering if anybody can tell me what they think this dream of hers mean because I really don’t want her to have horrible dreams like this because I would never EVER! want to hurt her she means so much to me and just knowing that she is getting hurt by me even if it’s in the dream and I was wondering what can I do so she can’t dream like this. Also please help interpret this dream because even if you say a dream is just a dream they always have a message in it…

(btw this isn’t the first time she’s had a horrible dream about me)

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Answer #1

yah your right..all dreams have messages in them..sub concious ones though that just kind of ‘click’ later on…first off I am going to start with the actual dream…the part about you with another girl might be saying that she doesn’t fully trust you and deep down thinks you would cheat on her… and the rumors could represent how she may be thinking her relationship with you is not as strong as it could be because of you getting mad about the rumors and doing bad stuff to her…and about the suicide..she feels really sad about it and that this relationship means a lot to her and without it she is heart broken…and then at the end where you and the ‘dream girl’ laughed an dwalked away is her thinking maybe you dont actually care about her..

ok now what you should do is talk to her..re assure her that you like her a lot..if not love her. and one thing that works REALLY well is talk with her for a long time at night and ask eachother lots of questions about eachother(it could show her that you actually take interest in her and not using her) so like play 20 questions with her(obviously there will be more..and by 20 questions not how you think of something and she figures out what it is but you ask eachother questions you both want to know) now remember that honesty is a GOOD key in a relationship,without it a relationship can’t work.

anyways I hope I have helped..message me if you need help or any questions

Answer #2

she is just subconciously worried that you might cheat on her, just make sure these dreams will just be “dreams” to her and do your best to be there for her.

Answer #3

dreams can actual mean sum thing. they are the thoughts and feelings of the subconscious mind coming through in a strange way. it could mean that she is unsure about where you guys are at or she may have been cheated on before and have trust. but the fact that she has told you about these dreams means that she does trust you in someway it is understandable to be unsure about what to do. try talking to her about it. or you could try doing something really meaning ful for her that shows that you are 100% loyal to her and that she has nothing to worry aboout

Answer #4

maybe shes feeling slighty insecure about your relationship… if shes telling you then she may be trying to tell you that shes worried and wants you to reassure her its not true. there isnt really anything you can do to stop the dreams, except let her know that you love her. you could ask her if shes worried that you are going to cheat on her. it doesnt sound like you are the type who would, I mean its obvious that you really care about her, but insecurity strikes even the most confident of us girls. I know from experience. just be there for her when she needs u.

Answer #5

It could be her fears of losing you and being betrayed. When two people are really close and they start opening up to each other, well sometimes people feel vulnerable because they know that the person they trust could really hurt them. I don’t think you have anything to worry about and I also don’t think you should feel bad about this dream. It is something that she has to deal with, her own fears and feelings of vulnerability. All you got to do is keep on loving her and caring for her as you have. I think her dream is saying: “I love you so much and trust you so much it would be terrible to loose you”.

Answer #6

dreams don’t mean anything…don’t trip

Answer #7

Ell: When me and Brian started I used to dream about Brian being dead all the time. I killed him in one dream, it just means she’s nervous. I stopped after a few months. We’re still together and it’s been years, so don’t let it bother you.

Answer #8

Me and my boyfriend have both been having this same situation recently, such as he has dreams about me somehow being dead by suicide or me leaving him somehow and with me mine have been simmalar, don’t worry about it too much, this usually means that shes been thinking about you leaving her, shes just scared and this has carried onto her dreams, as long as you can assure her your never gonna leave her and you care about her so much, these dreams will stop and she might start having really good dreams or stop having them at all.

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