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How can I handle that she dumped me when I need her?

So my girlfriend broke up with me after dating a year and half after she told me she feelz like she’s losing feeling for me cuz i been rude to her lately and i really need her at this point of my life cuz she makes me happy and its hard without here because she was my best friend helping me with everything like school and other stuff NOW I CANT CONCENTRATE ON ANYTHING EVEN TRYING TO HAVE FUN IT’S HARD BCUZ I REALLY MISS HER. She hasn’t called me in 3 days and I’m so worried what she doing every second Cuz ppl told me she like this new guy in her school N now Its gonna kill me that if she dates this guy i wont sleep or eat because I’ll be thinking if hes kissing and hugging her and probably having sex with her and that hurts me in the heart but I WANT HER BACK IN MY LIFE BCUZ DATZ DA GURL DAT I FEEL IS DA LOVE OF MY LIFE n i don’t want her to move on bcuz my life will be torn without her and i dont want to be friend cuz i miss her love she’s my motivation when it comes to school and such I really love her and whats weird is she broke up with me on da same month she did last year only dat was bcuz her life was so stressful but i manage to still talk to her n then 3 months later she came back to me sayin she miss me n her life is hard without me But Now i guess she seem to move on bcuz she hasnt called me or talk to me on da computer or should i be the one doin dat and ive ask myself if shez is da one n yea she is n i deserve her bcuz we have been through so much i dont know why she would leave me fo da one she likes can someone tell me HOW TO GET HER BACK AND YEA I KNOW I SHOULDNT RUSH DA PROCESS OF GETITING HER BACK BCUZ IT WILL BE TO HARD PLEASE SOMEONE TELL ME WAT TO DO ON HOW TO HAVE HER COME TO ME BCUZ MY LIFE REALLY IS DOWN WITHOUT HER I LOVE THIS GURL SHE HAS IMPROVE MY LIFE SO MUCH AND I CANT STOP LOVING HER TILL I DIE REALLY SO SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME

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Answer #1

Whoa>you sound like you are obsessed with this girl! You know, you have told us how you feel about your ex, and what she has done to your life, but those are just YOUR feelings. She obviously doesnt feel that way about you…at least not anymore. See the trouble with young love is…it just doesnt last. Because its not true love. A year and a half is a long time to be with the same person when you are young. There isnt anything you can do to get her back..unless she wants to come back to you…which isnt the case, since she already likes someone new. Your life is down because of her, but she has moved on, and you should too. She has called or talked to you, because you and her are no longer dating. Its going to hurt, for a long time…we all have and will go through lost loves, but its a part of life that is out of our control! You have to accept the fact that you and her are over, and look towards the future.

Answer #2

Were you actually rude to her lately? It’s definetely difficult to try to move on after someone has broken up with you….I’m going though the same thing right now. If she really loves you back then she’ll come back to you. Sometimes it just takes a person time to realize what they’re missing out on. Go on with your life & try to be the best person you can be, & if she comes back to you, she comes back to you, if she doesn’t then she didn’t love you as much as you thought she did.

Answer #3

Snds like u need to move on it wud probably b best for both of u

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