My friend had sex

jaymie your right but she is on birth control but the first time she was on birth control and she got pregnant and this is the 2nd time and she changed her birth control but she might be pregnant man she dont even know the father for her first child and if she is pregnant now she dont know the father for this one!!!

if your worried about her getting pregnant reccommend her to get on birth control..

although she can still get STD’s, which theres no solution for that unless she uses a condom.

Don’t feel bad if you can’t stop her and if nobody else will. You can tell her all you want, but in the end, she’s still going to do what she wants to do. Trust me, I’ve been through something like this and my friend still did what she wanted to do and now she has to deal with the consequences. Sooner or later something will happen with your friend that will cause her to slow down.

I think it is not possible to stop her. Or you can stop her by closing her into the house or room, but I think you do not wish this for her. She needs this extreme freedom, something happened to her during her childhood. Maybe a psycho-analysis could clarify the reasons and help her a bit., nut certainly not much. If she lives this life then she will get old quite early, so I think she will get the same amount of experience than the other slower living girls, but in a shorter time.

Well the only other thing I can think of is scare her out of having sex. Show her pictures of some serious STD’s. That stuff is gross. If her having sex is that much of a problem, scare her out of it. Tell her, see this can happen to you if you keep sleeping around. Or sometimes sex can often lead to an infant. Which most 17 year olds don’t need.

Tell someone who can help her. She’s a nympho, she likes to have sex. Just have someone who can help her with her problem talk to her about it and the possible consequences of having sex.

Sometimes the impossible reality is that there’s only so much we can do to stop someone’s self-destructive behavior. If you’ve told her how you feel and tried to seek outside help, you have to step back and let her make her own choices and her own mistakes. As much as you might disagree with what she is doing, this is her life and these are her choices, not yours. If she is on a truly dangerous path, she will see it eventually, but she will need to come to these realizations on her own.

The important thing here is to not blame yourself or feel guilty for what she is doing. Just as it would be foolish to walk around taking credit for someone else’s accomplishments, so it is foolish to excoriate yourself for someone else’s mistakes.

THANKS BUT I ALREADY TOLD SOMEONE TO HELP HER BUT IT DIDNT WORK SHE DONT CARE!!!