What to tell my pregnant friend?

I have a friend who is pregnant and she is 14 she asked me what I would do either keep it or put it up for adoption. I need help with what to tell her.

Answer #1

My aunt got pregnant when she was 15, and her mom said abortion wasn’t a choice so she decided to keep the baby. My cousin is about 7 now and my aunt loves her and my cousin is so cute. So I say either keep or adoption

Answer #2

abortion is not the thing to do its a life inside her and that is the best thing anyone can ever give to someone, I had an abortion when I was 15 and I regret it. if she has no family to support her raise a child then she can put it up for adoption and give it to some one who cannot have children, I know I wish I had done that.

Answer #3

She wants to know what YOU would do if you were in her position - you should tell her what you honestly feel.

Answer #4

Everyone is going to have a different opinion on abortion and adoption who answers this question, so that’s not going to help you or her. This is a big decision and she really needs to think about how she feels about it. Having a child so young is a big responsibility, make sure she understands that. Everything happens for a reason, so whatever choice she decides to make will be a good one. She’ll know deep down what to do, & you being her friend can only help her see the different sides of her decisions and her consequences. Just be there for her, and I wish her the best of luck. <3

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