My ex is a jerk.

I’m sort of in the same situation- realising my ex is a total jerk. Trust me it wasnt easy when you used most of your time trying to get a relationship working. I even was so stupid to change jobs and quit my studies for him to even like me. He didnt even like me having gfs, so I lost contact with most of them, or even going out after dark. He stripped me of my confidence and felt like he left me naked, with no self estemme.

Relationships shouldn’t need to be complex, relationships shouldnt use up all your energies. For the past five month since we broke up for the third time I have been focusing on my studies, and try to focus on being independant and happy with myself. And the main reason for him breaking up was because I wasnt working and he wanted to be serious and his money hungry family didnt want a poor uni student marrying into the family. Recently he has contacted me to see how I was doing, really to see if I left my studies for work, as so, I played along, and re-read the SMS’s and FINALLY realise this was the last man in the universe who I wanted to spend my life with. His main and only concern was to see if I was loaded.

The solution is just to move on concerntrate on the most important person in the universe, which is YOU. Spend your money on designer clothes, and facial and nails stuff and hair products. Concerntrate on what you want out of life. You shouldnt have to change your destiny according to someone elses.

My final revenge is to slap him in the face when I am shining like a celebratity superstar! And hopefully my 27yo ex jerk is still living on his parents property in a trailer.

Im not going to think about it, just going down to the mall now. Get my mind off the subject!

I bet you he’ll come crawling back after he’s done with his skank but don’t let him in. He’s an ass find someone new. Whatever you’re feeling for this guy is probably some leftover feelings for him but someopne who would hurt you or any girl like that is a jackass.

This is how you get shit straight. Ignore the hell out of him. He will eventually try to talk to you and he may be really nice with it but don’t you dare give in to him. Give yourself time to heal, but don’t let him see you hurt. Everytime this man sees you, you need to look like you are on cloud nine and not EVEN worried about him, that is how you flip the script. It only works if you don’t give in.

My ex and I were together for about a year, and living together. Things were going well until we moved in together, and then he became completely distant. After 5 months I found “I love you” texts on his phone from another girl. He lied, and I caught him in the lie, but still claims he never cheated. I flipped out, which probably wasn’t the best reaction, kicked him out, broke the lease and moved 3 hours away. I honestly thought he would try to prove something to me, but now 2 months later hasn’t shown me nothing. Now I’m the one left feeling that I messed up and was too hasty, and now feeling punished by him. He says he’s over it, and wasn’t ready for a relationship. This info would have been nice a year ago! He broke my heart , and now won’t talk to me. What a coward and a jerk!

The sad reality is if you have to play a game to get him interested then you know its not ment to be. Dont focus on making him jealous or desiring you. He has wasted enough of your time. Focus on friends and family. Realize even if you get back with him the same problems will happen again and here you will be all upset again. Change your number, email address and your a social site. Make yourself unreachable for your own good.