My ex-girlfriend:Help

keep trying to help her she obviously has a problem and is in denial you just need to help her realize that she does ,indeed, have a problem and she’ll want to fix it. hope I helped and good luck with whatver you do

Have you tried giving her compliments and really showing how much you care and how concerned you are about her and her safety? Try things like that in a way of trying to persuade her(if you haven’t already) or maybe she has a really close friend or relative, any one she really trusts that may be able to get through to her if you can’t. Maybe if you weren/t alone, if you got a lot of people who cared toghether to help it may be easier.

Sorry if I didn’t help you any, I really hope you figure some thing out.

that is WAYYY to long people!

She’s dug herself too far in. She won’t stop at all doing what she does.

well if you or someone doesnt help her soon she could die your friend has an eating disorder called bulimia everytime she eats food she throws it up in an attempt to not put any weight on usually unaware of the extreem health problems it can cause not only her health and fertility are at risk, but so is her life and shes obviously in seriouse denial she probably doesnt see that shes not healthy and is so consumed in what shes been doing that she cant what you need to do is realise that no matter what you SAY it wont help enough to change her you need to actually get her help I know shes old enough to make her own decisions but deciding that shed rather be dead than put on weight would just be horrible for her family, you, and everyone else shes knows …she probably doesnt even realise how much your worried about her I would suggest taking her to a hospital, by force if you have tpo or reporting it to a site, institute, ect that could take her and help her or if right now that seems too hard to do tell her to come to the doctors with you just to get her bmi (body mass index) correctly calculated for her height and age the doctor will be bale to see how underweight she is and what weight she should be and even if it doesnt help much at least youll know how seriouse her problem is and she might realise it too also, it would help to tell her father try to have a mature conversation with him that your worried about her health and that tell him she has an eating disorder, how underweight she is, what she really does with her food, how its making you feel, and that tell him that you just want to help her get some help so she can try to start eating again and thatif he got involved a bit more that might help too maybe even ask if he could come down for one day so you could both talk to her about her eating disorder and get her some help it might seem hard to do now but it sounds like your the only one whos doing something about it also the more people close to her that you make aware of the problem usually the more helpers youll have but make sure if your going to tell people its her close friends and family