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So, I was with this guy at the beginning of the year for about 3 months exclusively, and we broke up. Around August, I took him back. He moved out of state to go play basket ball and go to school in Detriot. We decided to continue our relationship long distance. He didnt have a job because he simply didnt have time, he was a full time student, and he played bball, so I would send him money here and there to help him out a bit. 3 months into our relationship, I started getting suspicious because I would look at the pic messages that he was sending me and noticed that he was also sending them to 9 other girls as well (most living in MI). I figured I had the right to call all of these girls considering I was providing his income...and all stood up for him and said they were just friends. I didnt understand why he would be sending other girls as many pics as he was sending his girlfriend. If anything, I shouldve been getting more pics. why do friends need that many pics of friends anyways? well the next day, he texted asking how I got theirr numbers, I told him, and a few hours later, he texted me saying he found someone else that understood his lifestyle a lot better than I did (if it werent for me, he wouldnt have a lifestyle) and that this chick treats him way better than I ever did, come to find out, she lives in Denton, TX, and he met her on Myspace (never seen her in person) I looked on his myspace, and he is already talking about moving to TX with her, and how she is his (wifey) blah blah blah...So this was all a couple months ago...and now he has kind of been texting me a little here and there, telling him how he is moving home...basically bragging to me about his new found life. And this wonderful older woman he met that treats him like a king, and blah blah blah...I know with it being Xmas, I am going to somehow see him, because his cousin is my best friend, and I know her whole family...I'm like part of her family...So I know that If I see him, Im going to see her...But I dont want to see him...I just want him to see me, and how good I look, and how much I dont need him, so he can want me back...Cause I want him to want me back...so he can feel the rejection that I felt when he dumped me...anyways, he is coming home wednesday, and I kinda need some advice on what to do...PLEASE HELP ME!!!
Well, you should make yourself look as good as possible, so he will want you back, and feel like you did when he dumped you: rejected! And, you should try to say hi and stuff, but don't talk to him only. Make him think you are independent, and better than all those other girls put together!
Sincerely, ~Andrea[:
Make sure whe nyou know your going to be around him where the hottest outfit you have if he says hi to you just say hi back and then leave him hanging and walk off it will make him want to talk to you more if anything just act like your better off now and it should have hijm eating out of the palm of you hand
