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my ex and my boyfriend

i have gone out with this guy twice before. The first time we went out for two months and he broke up with me and the second time the same thing happened. I decided that i was done getting my heart broken by him and I relized that we just wernt ment to be together and it just never worked out. Not to long ago he asked me out again. He would call me at 1 in the morning just to talk and he would be so sweet. He called me beautiful and told me that I was his everything. I had a feeling that he was just doing this because he wanted a girl friend and so he thought that sence we had gone out twice i would be easy to get. The next day he asked me out and I told him that it just never works out between us. So i said no. He was my frist “real” boyfriend and I just guess I cill never be able to get over him and I do stil love him. Now I just started dating this really sweet guy yesterday and I love him so much. But i cant get my ex off my mind. Does anyone have any advise for me?…is it ok to still love your ex when I have found someone who loves me and I love him? Please help!!

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Answer #1

ok gurl i know EXACTLY how you feel. look what you need to do is keep goin with the guy you are talkin to now because no matter how much you try you may never be able to git over you ex and thats just how its gonna be. you need someone that is gonna treat you nice and not break up wit you and ask you out again and again. enjoy the guy you are talkin to now and have fun wit him.

Answer #2

first how r u in love wit a boii u just stared goin wit and i dont think it is okk maybe u ned to slow down and just chill wit the boiis for a while like stop datein for a couple of mounths that is wat i did and now i am wit a nice boii named donte so just chill for a min

Answer #3

Behavior is allways more important than being sweet on the phone. If this new b/f behaves that way how you like it take HIM seriously. Ok, if this new b/f lets you go out time to time with the ex then you may enjoy his company also. But your serious b/f should be the new one. And that is your decision what you do with the not -serious friend. If your new b/f is against of seeing your ex, then I think you should accept it.

Answer #4

Yes its normal, but the fact is that your ex broke your heart and it does sound like he only wants you back when he is lonely, only to break your heart again so you def did the right thing in saying no to him, you stood up to him becos he cannot continue thinking that he can call you when eva he wants and use you when eva he wants so well done. Give this new guy a chance, evenutally it may work for the better.

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