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I need some advice to move on… I asked my best friend that was a girl out. We were friends for two years before that.We went on one date… but I said the L word by accident….She dumped me in February..I don’t blame her…We were still friends till June…Then we got into a small fight. I told her I was very sorry.She said it was ok. Then we havent talked since June.Because it was summer time. I have dated other girls, but she doesnt know because it was summer…but I still cant move on…

  Every time I watch t.v I use to think this was her favorite show or when I listen to music or I am on the computer..or when I read...Sometimes at night I feel like my heart just drops for no reason. She is in one of my classes.We arent exactly talking now... And I dont know what to say to her because its been so long...I tried e-mailing her to say hi and no response...
 Is it just by seeing her that reminds me of the pain..and I just cant move on?..I dunno. Its been since February since she dumped me and I am still in pain is that normal?I just dont know what to do.....I still have feelings for her.. please help...
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Answer #1

Yes…it normal when you have it for someone really bad….but you must move on…….as much as I hate to tell you…she just isn’t into you. Sounds like this was your first love…was it? You always will have feelings for them. But you should communicate with her….tell her you think shes a great girl and you must have gotten carried away when you said the “L” word…and explaine your sorry she got freaked out but she should know there are different levels of love…and I must have just felt fluttered at the time to say that…..tell her you would like to be friends…(if you can…if you cant don’t even have the talk just move on and clear your head of her with distance). Good Luck!

Answer #2

yes it is normal hun, there is no time frame on when the pain goes away and it takes alot of time to heal over a lost love. Atleast you are trying to contact her again but the fact that she isnt responding is a sign that she doesnt want to speak you right now, maybe she just isnt ready for it. Just give her some time, maybe one day she’ll come around but eventually the pain will ease in your heart, time heals everything.

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