My dad Fu@ked up

I think you are completely right why would you let your daugter around a man like that you have to be strong you are an adult now and know that this is not you want for your family I wish your mam would listen to you and realise that no one needs to be beaten and that there is a better life for her without a man like this and as for your family shunning you do they realise what you had to put up with from an early age if they do thay are the fools not you I admire you for taking this action and not wanting any thing to do with him until he gets the help he needs also your mother needs a lot of help too as her self astem must be nothing if she feels she has to put up with this again I admire your courage you are the one that is right dont forget it

I think you’re being very reasonable. What you can do is have a serious conversation with your sisters. Where I don’t think you’re reasonable is where your mother doesn’t get to see your daughter. Grandma/grandaughter time is important, but then you also reason that after the visit your father could beat your mother more.

Pull a restraining order against your father for your daughter, if possible. Doing so might be the wake up call that the family needs.

I think your doin the absolute correct thing. He needs to know that, that type of bahavior in not acceptable in any case drunk or not. Plus the fact you have a lil girl now you don’t want people like that teachin her that things like that are ok… I think your doin the right thing.