Should I stay with my boyfriend or get back with my ex?

K welll. Me and this guy used to go out. and It was so great we never fought and everything always went well… But then one day I had like a mental break down and I dumped hima dn my life went to Shitt.. but then I met this other guy… The guy im dating now… Hes more then I could have hoped for… like everything we are like married practically He loves me more then I know and I love him just as much or more… But then Me and my ex are recently friends again… and everytime I see him I just Love him too and my heart thumps and I get butterflies… and I kissed him before and told my current boyfriend about it He was furious but we workied it out/?? I need to know what I can do Stay with my current boyfriend?? Or Go for the one that just I know I love and I know everything will be eprfect with?

Answer #1

mmm and you where talking about wantting achild yet you do not even know which Boy you want to be with… you reqally need to sit down and think a little bit or jsut listen to your self for a few mins…awww this is a mess.

Okay well first of all you are 15 years old and will mostly not marry either one of these guys…( just how it is) and if you do not know which one to be with then that does not tell you a hole lot about either one of them except that you do not really want to be with either one if you are willing to give them up one for the other like this…( you hearing me?)You are 15years old and clearly do not no what lvoe is if you still think it is a bunch of emotions…it is not it is a commpitment if you thin people stay married becasue of how they feel then you have a lot to learn about life..you can hate the person you are with at times they can hurt you badly..you can be pissed at them but love is when you stay reguardless of how you are feeling in that moment…it is not always good feeling for eachother just keep that in mind okay…love really is a commitmet and relationships take a lot of work. And a lot of communication too so the better that you get at that the better all around.

I would say do not stay with either one. for what reason do you have if all you are looking for is a short high per say through feeling that I am not to sure you even have a understanding Of do not get me wrong though I might not be right but if this is what you thin then I feel reallyu bad for you non of it is going to work out and I am sorry to say that but it is jsut that the commitment is with nither one. You should be looking at who is the etter one in reguads to being commiteted to give you what you want. Which one is going to work it all out with you and which one wants it more and same as which do you want more..if all you are looking for is feelings then go I guess with the one where it is stronger.

Answer #2

get ure x bak im in tha same situation exept im tha x ahahah

Answer #3

You need to leave them both and take some time out by yourself to work out where your heart truley is. Its not fair to be with one and have feelings for another, so take some time out and see who you really want.

Answer #4

how can you be so in love and more with your current boyfriend, and also love so much your ex boyfriend?? sounds like the current boyfriend should leave you personally. If your love was as true as you sound…you wouldn’t have kissed the old one and you would be more into showing off your new love to your old love. Could you live w/o your current b/f? obviously you could live w/o the old because you guys broke up and you found this wonderful guy. Is losing your wonderful guy worth a maybe shot with the old guy? How did you feel when you told the current guy you kissed the old guy? were you scared of losing him, or were you ok if it didn’t work out? And how does your old guy feel? does he want to be with you, or is it more so just the “chase” of the game? I say don’t leave your here and now for the past.

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