My cousin is ruining my life!

About 6 months ago, my cousin started hanging out with me and my friends, and it was pretty cool then, cause like I thought it was good that we were all hanging out together and stuff, but lately it seems like shes trying to push me out of the group, like she started going out with the guy I really like, when she knew I really liked him, and she like hangs out with us all the time now, and she invites them over her house without me, and it feels like shes trying to steal my friends, cause it seems like they’d rather talk to her than me, like if I’m out with two of my friends, they’ll both be txting her and pretty much ignoring me, and she’ll do stuff that she knows really annoys me, until I get so pissed off I have a go at her, then acts all innocent so my friends are like why am I having a go at her, but they dont know what she’s like, when I stay at hers she practically ignores me, and doesnt let me touch any of her stuff or anything, and acts like its a major inconvenience that I’m there, And like yesterday, they told me they’d meet me on town, but when I got there they weren’t there, cause theyd gone to her house without telling me, which I found out had been planned for ages, we’re all 16/17, and shes still only 13, and I’m like, why do they seem to like her so much more than me?

Sorry this is really long… But I just don’t know what to do… I feel so depressed, like im losing my friends to her and they dont seem to care, its like they’d rather be with her than me, like im not good enough for them or something…

Answer #1

now I’ve found out she’s been going out with the guy I like for over a month, but noone told me,cause they said they didn’t want to upset me =/ but like they havent told anyone, and as far as a social site is concerned, theyre both still single, whats going on with that? its like he’s ashamed of her or something, I dunno…

Answer #2

her mum knows, she’s tried saying she’s not too happy about her spending so much time with people so much older, but she doesn’t seem that bothered if she goes out with one… I’m not sure maybe I got the wrong impression…

Answer #3

Wow, maybe since you are so much older, get her when she’s alone and tell her to back off or that pretty little face of hers isn’t gonna be so pretty anymore…or maybe you shouoldn’t. Maybe you could talk to your friends and ask them whats going on and if they say something about you being jelous of her, maybe they really aren’t your friends if they don’t get you, or even trust you. My friends cousin is always telling her mom about what she does, so maybe this will sound childish, but give her mom some dirt on her! Or you could tell your mom that she was really wanting to spend some alone time with her and since she likes to play the innocint roll, she will give you a dirty look when no one is watching and go along with your mom. But it’s possible that she just want’s to be ko0l by hanging out with the older kids, you could find some kids her age and have them meet or just tell her to meet someone her own age. And if your looking for revenge (not like serious death kinda stuff), I have four brothers, so I have got some tricks up my sleeve. FunMail me. Tootles! LovesRazer

Answer #4

Find new friends? Seriously, you made friends in the first place. You can make more friends. Also she’s trying to hook up with a 16 year old? Her mother’s not going to be too happy with that…

Answer #5

thanks thats a really good idea I see her mum a lot so I might try that… I’ve tried telling her to back off and hang out with kids her own age, but she just seems to come out anyway >.< but I’ll defo try that and see wutt happens

thanks for the help (: xx

More Like This
Advisor

Parents & Family

Parenting, Marriage, Childcare

Ask an advisor one-on-one!
Advisor

Holbrook Life

Senior Living Communities, Active Adult Communities, Retirement Communities

Advisor

Dearly

Family Management, Organization, Life Management

Advisor

A Bun In The Oven

Parenting, Maternity, Family

Advisor

Connect55+

Senior Living Communities, Retirement Communities, Senior Apartments

Advisor

Under Adria's Wings

Child Support Services, Youth Development Programs, Grief Counseling