my boyriend cant get it up! at all!!!

I am having the same issue. I already do not think I am all that great looking and it is a slap in the face knowing that he can become erect looking at a porno and not at me. I am trying not to get all bent out of shape over it because he seems to feel really bad about it. he has mentioned that he sometimes can’t even get an erection watching porn even. It is starting to wear on me. We are supposed to be getting married next month and I am starting to doubt that I even want to, not because we are not having sex… because I do not think he is attracted to me and I do not want to be married to someone who isn’t. We go weeks to months without sex. When he gets an erection now all I think about is why does he have one this time and not all the others? I can’t enjoy myself because I am wondering why he all of a sudden has one.

I want to be supportive and I do not think a relationship is all about sex - but we are getting married and he wants kids. I am just starting to think maybe I am not the right girl for him. I cannot even manage to excite him anymore. I just don’t ant him to be “stuck” in a marriage with a woman that he is not attracted to.

your A DOG !! Get a face Lift !!

Find out first if he can get erected while masturbating or if he get’s an erection in the morning. If he doesn’t than there can be a serious problem which he has to seek help for. If he can get an erection, than his problem can be due to nervousness or caused by stress and performance anxiety (his worry if he’s doing the right thing and the stress associated with that).? A lot of guys have trouble holding an erection with a new person, when they are feeling nervous about performing. Take more time with foreplay and to try and get him to relax, this may ease the anxiety he may get.