Should I call my boyfriend who's being horrible to me?

well my boyfriend and i have been great ..until summer started..he got all weird around me and hie friend died and he got kicked out of school..so i was there for him but then i asked myself why the hell am i with somebody who could be a bad influence on me? and then he stopped calling me and he wouldnt really return my messages or texts and we would go 2 days without talking and he never wanted to chill and when we did chill we did nothing..and i went to camp for 4 days and i called him while i was there and i sed i miss you so much and all he could say was..youll be home in 2 days i think you can make it..and i was in shock when he sed that and he leaves his wet clothes on my nice wood floor in my room and i have to do his laundry and he expects my parents to do everything for him and hes just taken my whole family for granted and its disrespectful and i told him everything and more that i just typed here and i got really pissed at him and told him i wasnt happy. i thought he was gunna cry but he kept it in..and sed he wanted to make things right and hwo they used to be and so he called me that night and we talked..then he called me the next morning and asked me if i wanted to go to his aunts beach with him and i sed my dad doesnt want me going anywhere with him so he told me hed get to my house around 5 as fast as he could..but he ditched me for the 4th time this week and i havnt heard from him in 2 days..and i dont know what to do because i dont wanna call him and i havnt done anything to make him act like this..im a nice girl and all his friends tell me that they dont know why hes doing this to me and i dont desrve to be treated like this..i gave him everything i could possibly offer and he took me for granted and hes about to lose “the best thing he ever happened to him” please tell me what to do i want to call him and break up with him because im not putting up with his bullshit and being a pushover but then again i fell for him so i do wanna work things out but he atleast needs to grow some fuking balls and tell me he doesnt love me anymore or that hes doing drugs..so i have no idea what to do and i dont wanna give him the satisfaction of me calling him when he hasnt called me in 2 days so any advice you could give me would be awesome