My boyfriend left me.

This does really makes me angry too. But move on. He is not worth it. He is the reining jerk for life.I would kill him myself too. You should have nothing to deal with him.He left you for her.That was being a jerk also.But you should know what to do now. Leave him alone.He is a nothing.Stay away from the asshole.

My boyfriend of two years has just said we should go on a break for 2 weeks! I can’t make contact with him until the two weeks are up as he needs space, im distraught! i can’t eat or sleep and i know 100% he is the guy i want to spend the rest of my life with. We got together when he had just turned 16 and i had just turned 17 so we are young. i am willing to fight so hard to get back with him. he is perfect.He says i have a temper problem and i dnt give him enough space, how do i change this to be with him? Can anyone offer any advice?

He was obviosly blind. He does not relize what he had. Men are sometimes real jerks. But sometimes you can find ones who are not. So until then don’t let him see you upset. Put your fishing line back in the water and wait til you catch something better. Some one who is gonna treat you with respect, kindness, and as if you were the only person in the world.

Dear U, I am not going to tell u oh forget him, because it ain’t that simple trust me I know, Its going to hurt alot its going to ache u so much, but u gotta think that everything happens for a matter, U have to be strong, and have dignity to forget him, Go out with friends let tha pain dissolve by itself don’t try to go out with someone just to forget him trust me the only person u are going to be hurting is YOU! So plz be strong Good Luck, Sweetcaramel

I am going through something similar. My boyfriend recently left me for the most selfish reason ever: he wanted more “fun.” He wanted to try a threesome and knew he couldn’t do that as long as we were together. He basically told me that I wasn’t worth crap to him…Anyway, I can tell you that the pain I feel is absolutely horrendous. I genuinely love him, and I’m frustrated with myself because of it (on top of the pain). I think the best thing we can do in these situations is to avoid the jerk at all costs and surround ourselves instead with people who truly love us. If it were easy to recover from a lost love, there wouldn’t be so many songs written about it. Just remember this saying, “It is better to lose a lover than to love a loser.” It takes strength, but we ladies are tough enough to recover. Put your dignity first; you’ll be glad you did.

• Steph

my boyfriend broke up w/ me…now he wants to be friends. Thats not love people! HE JUST CALLED ME AND I SAID: I FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE SPEAKING W/ U. I HUNGED UP. we were so in love and went to trips, he was my everything, he even gave me a ring. And now??? he wants me to be his friend. I LOVE THIS MAN, and its be 4 months…pain & crying. im moving on and it sux but you have to do whats best for you. dont ever let a man make you feel so low because your worth so much more!!! its october and I been dealing w/ this crap since June. BE careful! p.s. love your mom!

I am going through something similar. My boyfriend recently left me for the most selfish reason ever: he wanted more “fun.” He wanted to try a threesome and knew he couldn’t do that as long as we were together. He basically told me that I wasn’t worth crap to him…Anyway, I can tell you that the pain I feel is absolutely horrendous. I genuinely love him, and I’m frustrated with myself because of it (on top of the pain). I think the best thing we can do in these situations is to avoid the jerk at all costs and surround ourselves instead with people who truly love us. If it were easy to recover from a lost love, there wouldn’t be so many songs written about it. At least you found this out now and not 5 years down the road… Just remember this saying, “It is better to lose a lover than to love a loser.” It takes strength, but we ladies are tough enough to recover. Put your dignity first; you’ll be glad you did.

My ex girlfriend broke up with me cus I cheated on her, I found this great website called saveabreakup.com , I followed all the instructions on it and it helped me get back with my ex, now we’ve been together for almost 2 years. :)