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my boyfriend…is a freak…a sex freak…like he is always talking about doing it…he is 18 and I am 16 1/2 I have told him that I don’t want anything to do with sex until I am married but I don’t know latley I have been really into the whole idea of him being my first…I am just so comfortable around him and I could talk to him for hours about anything and I don’t know …should I take that step? or what? he and I both go to different school so we don’t see one another a lot and he is always telling me to go up to visit him…I don’t have a car…he does…and he is always talking about me spending the night at his house and I don’t know…should I take that step or what??? what would YOU do?

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Answer #1

If hes your boyfriend then why does your relationship status say single? 19 days ago you posted a question titled Found a great guy with just one flaw>The one flaw you were referring to was>> he is constantly telling me how much he likes me but then the conversation always turns into him wanting to have sex with me and then he goes on to explain how he would do it >>And you werent even dating! That is a HUGE red flag that this guy doesnt want you, HE WANTS SEX! Its right there in black & white. Now you here posting yet ANOTHER question stating your boyfriend is a freak!

From day 1 sex was all he had on his mind! Do you honestly think he really likes you just because he wants to have sex with you? Hun, this guy doesnt even care about you to be pressuring you as much as hes doing., let alone respect you. I cant believe you are willing to give him what he wants. Sex will NOT make a guy fall for you, like you more, or commit to you. How many other girls did he “sweet talk” into getting what he wanted? Dont waste something so precious(your virginity) so carelessly. Especially to someone who doesnt even have enough respect for you to wait! This is NOT someone you want to lose your virginity to. You are nothing but a piece of meat to him. He doesnt see you as a human being, just an object to be used then tossed away. Hold out for the mature guy who knows how to respect a woman! I guarantee if you do give in, you will regret it later!

Answer #2

hey just dun take that step…he wants sex frm you that’s it…he doesn’t even love u…dun lose your self respect for a guy like him

Answer #3

it depends. like if ALL he talks about is sex then I would be worried, but if you feel youre ready then go for it. your best bet is to talk to him about it. like tell him that youre THINKING about him being your first but arent 100% sure about it. see what his reaction is when you tell him that.

Answer #4

what I would do for starters if I have told him that I didnt want nothing to do with sex until I was married and if he didnt respect that then obviously thats all he wnts frm me is sex..if you are thinking about taking that step with him dont just do it because you think he is the one and you think you are ready do it because you know he is the one and you know you are for sure ready..

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