My boyfriend gets jealous too easily.

No, I am not thinking about breaking up with him because of this. But if you want to suggest it, do so, within reasons of course.

My boyfriend’s getting on my asss about my guy friends who had ALWAYS been there, even before he came along. Texting my homeboys is a crime to him now. And friends leaving me comments on myspace is also unacceptable.

Of course that doesn’t stop me from doing anything I want. But it’s just annoying as helll to hear him run his mouth all the time.

And the rediculous thing is, he goes to parties [I DON’T]. He dances with girls. He drinks. He got homegirls. When he had his phone, his girl-friends texted him on the daily. [even girls I know used to really like him & probably still do]

I NEVER MADE 1 COMPLAINT. It honestly did not bother me one bit. I don’t think it’s because I don’t love him but it’s because that’s just how much I trust him. He doesn’t give me reasons not to ever. AND I DON’T GIVE HIM REASONS TO EITHER.

IS THERE ANYTHING I CAN POSSIBLY SAY MORE TO HIM TO GET HIM TO STOP BEING JEALOUS FOR NO GOOD REASON???

Because I don’t think I deserve hearing a bunch of bull when I didn’t give him any reason to be suspicious.

Answer #1

a realationship id based on trust and love without the two is not likely to work if you love each other, your half way to a goos relationship if you trust each other…your pretty much there I think the two of you need to communicate more, and talk to each other you need to tell him how you feel about all this and he should tell you exactly how he feels too and if your both happy with each other, there wouldnt be any need to get jelouse over your freinds

Answer #2

Tell him exactly what you told us, hell link it to him.

You basically answered your own question and didn’t know it, just let him know there is no reason to worry about your friends, they wont steal you away and you wont cheat on him, that should be all you need, but if not, tell him its the same as his friends, YOUR ALL JUST FRIEND but him and you, you and him, you are in a relationship, and that’s the difference.

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