My boyfriend and I wanna have sex

Ok, so the other day I was iming my boyfriend, and he asked me how far that we would go with each other. He asked me if I would go as far a sex. I thoought about for a minute and said yes. I masturbate, but sometimes its just not enough. Now that I think about it I don’t know if I’m ready. I think I am but can someone like help me out? What are some things that you should think to yourself when your trying to decide if you are ready or not? By the way, this will be my first time besides masturbating, but masterbating really has nothing to do with this.

Answer #1

you dont have to have sex even though your in love and hes trying to talk you into it…I would wait…I would make sure he is the right guy for you…I would wait until you are atleast 16 and have been with the guy for like 6 months or more and your parents can even tell that you two are in love. make sure its protected. but just make sure hes right for you. you might think that now but you never know…I lost my virginity to the wrong guy and I regret it everyday…your virginity is something you can never ever get back. Also at your age it is illegal and if anyone finds out your boyfriend will go to juvie. just wait dont just do it because you think it’ll help the relationship…wait until your 16 and your completely ready. Your clearly arent since you asked us for help. Tell him that you arent ready and you love him but you want to wait…if he loves you he will wait if he doesnt then he was just interested in sex.

Answer #2

you should just tell him how you feel. if he really likes you he would understand. you should know when your ready. you will have this gut feeling. lol :)

Answer #3

Theres a really big difference between sex and makeing lovee.if you really love the guy, then think about it really good.when you make love its because you wanna share your body with the person you love .knowing you wont regret it.sex is probably the only thing god gave us that is sacred( didnt wanna sound all holy on you Lmaoo :D sorry).so if your willing to give that up then go for it.dont just do it because your horny.but if you do have sex use a FREAKINN CONDOMM!.but just remember useing a condom wont protect you frum getting hurt.the guy can always brake your heart.so make sure you guys are serius about eachother dont make it a hit it then quit it for him.

Answer #4

think you should make sure hes the right guy an its not somethin ull regret later, nobody can tell you when your ready but honestly I think if your havin to ask on here then your not sure an if your not completly sure your not ready, theres a lot of emotional stuff that comes along wit sex as corny as it sounds it really is true. Just be careful an make sure when an if you do it its b/c you really want to not just cause he wants you to.

Answer #5

Well, you’re 21 years old according to your profile…really at your age, you should know when you’re ready to have sex and when you’re not…and it really should be a heat of the moment thing.

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