My boyfriend always gets drunk wtih other girls w/o me.

You cant control someones elses behavior, and you cant rely on your bf or anyone else to make YOU happy. He already knows how you feel about what hes doing, but continues doing it anyway, which only means he doesnt care! He obviously isnt inviting his gf for a reason.
Trust is an important part of a relationship, and without it, there really is no relationship! I would give him an ultimatum, if he continues doing what hes doing, tell him that you will have to end things with him. That will be a sure sign if he cares about you, or not!! I played sports in school, and if he plays sports, he should have signed a code of conducts. Which means “he is NOT allowed to attend parties where theres alcohol and drugs! He will get penalized for his actions if the coach finds out.

You cant even trust yourself when your drunk how are you supposed to trust him? hun this arrangement is not going to work no matter how hard you try. You need to admit it and accept it, the fact that he doesnt really care and respect your feelings enough to even invite you to these parties is a pretty big sign! have you asked him why he doesnt invite you? he should be taking every opportunity to see you if you only see each other once a fortnight! sounds like he likes the non attached life better than the ‘i have a gf i should treat her right’ one. You dont deserve this, i think the best thing here is for you both to go your seprate ways for now, so you can party and get drunk wen eva you want without worrying about him, maybe losing you may wake him up a lil but either way its not going to work.

I know how you feel, I been with a guy for almost 2 yr, and he would never let me go to parties with him, he go and gets drunk and smoke weed.and I never know what he does and whos there, I just hear stories about the parties. I couldn’t take it no more so I broke up with him.it was hard cause he was my boyfriend and I loved him to death but sometimes you gotta learn that you deserve so much better. and now I am in a relationship for 3 months and he love me just as much as I love him. He ask me to go party with him and he lets me know that hes faithful by showing it! it hurts but let him have the regrets he doesn’t know whats good until its gone:] good luck hon.