my boyfriend

u helped me onc …. with the same guy… we got in a little fight and we worked things out ……now he lets me do more things he is not to jewlous….better saying not acting to jewlous ……. but now …… I want to break-up with him because I really like him and I think that if I say with him will just make me like him more and after its just ganna hurt me…. he is muslum… and his parents ..wants him to get married to a girl from his country and sooo . he has tooo . because his parents are making him … ( doesnt even now the GIRL) he doesnt want to but… he cant do anything … he is ganna get married when his 21 he is 20 …. that means he getting married in july ……. I dont really want to say with him because im scared im going to get hurt a lot because I really lke him … now I just need a nice way to tell him that I cant stay with him anymore and that I like him but its better for bought of us ……….

I tried MY BEST FOR HIS PARENTS TO LIKE ME … THEY LIKE ME … BUT HIS FATER SAID THAT HE CANT TAKE HIS WORD BACK …….HE MADE A AGREEMENT WITH …. THE GIRL FATHER

Answer #1

I hurt for you girl…..I know what its like when the guys parents say no….i’m there right now.

Well…..You must tell him how much you care for him….but because he wants to respect his families wishes….you must leave him now!!! Tell him…its not good for either of you…and not fair to the girl his arrange marriage is with. Because he needs to put his family first….and that is more important in his life….you admire him but at the same time have to respect yourself and your own feelings and future…….give him a hug and say goodbye…. Maybe there might me a small (and I don’t mean to get your hopes up) chance he will start to miss you….and realize you are what he really wants and he will tell his family…. but the longer you stay with him…the shorter time you give him to find this out… Good luck!

Answer #2

Its probally his religion to marry someone from his country.

Answer #3

well he needs to fight for wat he wants and not wat his parents want cuzz it them in the relationship and that if he loves u he will not marry her no matter wat and if he dont do that then u just havet to let him go and say good bye and that u love him and u wish him luck

Answer #4

if he isnt willing to fight for you then he isnt worth it and you need to end things with him asap! he is getting married! you need to tell him as soon as possible that you cannot continue in this relationship becos its going to be to hard on you and the longer you stay with him the more your gonna hurt later. Just talk to him and tell him what has to be done and he has to respect that.

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