What if my boyfriend treats me more like a friend?

ok, I really need help.. you see.. my boyfriend is getting confurtable with me or something like that… now he is doing things tat really hut me… he makes me feel more like a really good friend than a girlfriend… I love him… I love him with all my heart… I really dont know what to do.. please help… should I break up with him?…

Answer #1

Really good friends don’t hurt each other. If he is doing lots of things that hurt you, and you have told him that they do, you probably need to think very seriously about this relationship and if it is good for you. Loving him is not enough. If the two of you have a healthy, helpful relationship that is good for both of you is what you must consider. Then, if the answer is “NO” you can either work TOGETHER on what isn’t working or move on. If he isn’t willing to admit that there is a problem then he may have already moved on in some ways. Good luck. I hope you are mature enough to make the best decision and not just think “oh I love him”.

Answer #2

thank you for your guys advice, it really helped

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