My bestfriends boyfriend is a jerk.

My friend, 14, met this boy online, 17, and he asked for her number so she gave him it.

He’s so rude and they’re always breaking up and getting back together. He’s rude because

1. If I invite her over and he calls her (they’re usually on the phone for at least an hour) shes not allowed to talk to me. Because if I ask her something or anything and she responds. He’ll get pissed off and repeatedly say “im not important im not important im not important” and/or hang up on her. Shes over my house to hang out with me. So thats f’d up.

2. He’s always blackmailing her into doing things by saying he will kill himself. This was our last straw. The other night I was hanging out with her and he said “take a picture with her (as in me) in your undies and making out” we both said no! And he said “if you guys don’t do it, I will kill myself with this last bullet” I did not do this because he doesnt even know me and he cannot force me to do anything. She was refusing too. And of course, hes still alive.

3. He’s always putting her down. He calls her ugly and tells her she can’t sing, etc. And he sings on the phone very often and he is terrible but to him he is ‘beast’ at singing, but the second she sings he tells her she sucks and she should shutup, etc.

That’s all I can think of. I don’t know what I need advice on, I guess what to tell her. I’m always saying he doesn’t deserve her and that she should tell him to pop off and move on with his life but she doesn’t. I dont knoww..